When you’ve been in a relationship for a couple of years, you get so comfortable around each other that you inevitably take some things for granted. While women are also guilty of taking a few things in stride, men are even worse offenders.

Usually, when men are already secure in a woman’s love, they unwittingly start neglecting some of their duties. Naturally, this causes tension in the relationship. Women resent it when men don’t give them enough attention.

Thus, here’s a list of the things that men should never forget or neglect to do:

1. Giving her gifts on her birthday and other special occasions.
Though men seem to think that remembering the dates of special days isn’t that important, they have to understand that it’s a very big deal for women. So, they should mark their calendars accordingly. Women, however, should make it clear to them that they expect something special on the said dates. It’s not about the gifts anyway. It’s a way for men to reassure their wives or girlfriends that their love for them is still stronger than ever.

2. Good grooming and keeping fit.
There are some men who don’t really pay that much attention to looking good or being fit once they get married or in a long-term relationship. Relationships aren’t solely based on men’s looks, but it’s not good when they no longer make an effort to look great for their wives or girlfriends. Attraction is an important factor in relationships and women certainly can’t be attracted to men who don’t shave, cut their hair, put on some cologne, or wear suitable clothing. You can’t expect your wife or girlfriend to be affectionate with you when you’ve been wearing the same old shirt for three days in a row. Guys should take care of themselves for the sake of their relationship, as well as their health.

3. Kissing her hello and goodbye.
Guys should make it a point to kiss their wives or girlfriend properly each time they see each other and when they have to part. Women want affection on a regular basis even if they are just given through small gestures. A kiss is a way for a guy to touch base with his partner. If he forgets to do so, it could become a habit. Later on, he’d get the shock of his life when his wife or girlfriend begins to express her resentment over it. A kiss may be just a kiss, but it means the world to women.

No matter how busy a guy is, he has to stay on top of these three things. He can’t afford not to. Besides, they’re just simple moves that don’t cost much.

So here’s the thing, I’ve been dating this girl for a while now. She’s the type that seems like crave attention from other men, so she likes going out to clubs, parties etc. She also likes interacting with men online, flirting and things like that. I can’t say I like the way she interacts and conducts herself around other men.

I’ve noticed that she’s also territorial. She gets very jealous if she thinks I’m out partying, hanging out with other women, talking to women online etc. Basically if I do anything she does, she’d get jealous. She’s pretty much selfish in that sense and admits it.

The thing is, she says she doesn’t want to be in a relationship at the moment. She says that they never work out for her, and that it seems that as soon as she makes her relationships official, they start to go downhill. Kind of superstitious I guess. But then again, she doesn’t want to just “fool/mess around” with me because she doesn’t want to “share” me with other women. Again, selfish.

So basically, we’re somewhere in the middle I guess. Honestly Doc, I can’t say I trust her. To me it seems like she would be happy if she could have me and other men without me knowing or having a problem with it. She just seems like one of those girls that love to roam, and run wild and free.

Anyway, I’ve noticed that my insecurities are growing. I tend to kind of check on certain things she does because in the back of my mind, I’m thinking there’s a chance she’s “playing” me. I know this isn’t good. The more I do it, the weaker I’ll become. But the thing is, she’s not exactly the overly affectionate/expressive type, and with her being the type that likes to be around men and craves their attention, I end up second guessing how she might feel about me at any given moment which causes me to ask her questions and confront her about certain things I dislike. I know none of this is good, and this is why I’m here.

I want to be able to have the control to pretty much not care what she’s doing, and not be tempted to ask her questions about how she feels. I know that a self-confident, secure guy who doesn’t complain is obviously more attractive. It’s always been a difficult thing for me once I’ve gotten a bit attached to the girl. So I was hoping you could maybe give me a few pointers on how to deal with this situation and turn the tables on her so that she could be the one stressing out, wondering, asking me questions, getting jealous etc. Yet I don’t want to push her completely away. I just want to have complete control if you get what I’m saying.

Hello!

I can’t say you SHOULD like the way she deals with other men either! In fact, it’s damn disrespectful to you and your relationship!

Why in the hell are you being such a pussy about this? She doesn’t want YOU to have a life or any fun but she won’t give you what you want either. Don’t you see the problem here? She can only do this if you LET her do it! Further, she only does it because you do let her get away with it! She’s not the problem my brother; YOU are the problem.

OF COURSE your insecurities are growing! What else can they do? You apparently don’t want to man-up and tell this girl the facts. Instead, you’d rather act like a scared little boy; fearful of losing her, than to demand what you deserve – and feel comfortable walking if you don’t get it.

What you aren’t seeing is this: it’s exactly BECAUSE you won’t stand up for yourself that she doesn’t want anything real with you! No woman is going to invest herself in some guy that she doesn’t feel safe and secure with. If you don’t know your worth or value, how will she even know it?

Even your goal is wrong here. You’re hoping to discover some technique to not care what she does or says. That’s exactly the opposite of what you should be doing. Instead, you should hold her responsible for it – and tell her in absolute terms that HER actions are causing YOU to go find someone smarter than she is!

You’re wrong also about what a confident, secure guy would do. I’m one of those (and just as arrogant too! , so here’s what I’d do:

I’d tell this girl this: “Go out and eat hamburger if you want. I’m looking for a girl that likes steak and I’ve decided I’m going to find her. If you ever develop a taste for it, let me know, but so far, you haven’t.”

Then, I’d be in the arms of the next pretty girl I saw – with her watching me. If she’s this jaded, I might even get her to help me meet this girl! I’ve done this more than once. Any girl that won’t commit to me becomes the vehicle by which I meet such a girl. Yes, they hate that, but I deserve better treatment! I’ve actually asked girls that told me they weren’t looking for “…a relationship right now…” to introduce me to someone else at the bar!

Now, do you think that doesn’t get these girl’s competitive juices flowing? Do you think that doesn’t make me a prize in their eyes? If you think any of these things, you’re mistaken my friend. In fact, it does all these things.

What you do is to give away all your power to the girl because you’re attracted to her. It’s that very power she needs to see in order to feel attraction back. She neither wants it from you nor can use it when you give it to her. It’s yours to keep, but you have to decide once and for all that you’re worth more than you’re getting. Until you make this simple decision, you’re not worthy of it – and she knows it which is exactly why she treats you this way.

You don’t get “complete control” by backing away. You get control by taking it.

My first blind date actually went great. It was alot better than I had expected. My date and I had a good time together and although we did not end up being a couple, we did end up being good friends from then on. I was matched on a blind date because my parents and my date’s parents knew each other. After conversing about us, they decided to set us up on a blind date, and we both were ok with it. I was comfortable going on this blind date because I had known the family already somewhat, however I had never met their daughter. I picked her up from her house and there was some physical attraction off the bat. I could feel she had a physical attraction to me also. This was a good start. We went out to a nice italian restaurant to eat dinner. The place was great, having a romantic vibe set by candles and personal tables. We talked about work, school, and our goals in life. This is initially when I felt like we wouldn’t mesh. Although we were physically attracted, we did not have the same interests or goals. However, I decided not to base the entire not on our first minutes of conversation. After dinner, we went to a movie, where we also talked some of the time there about our hobbies, our opinions on movies, and other small talk. Again, I could feel that our interests were not in the same areas, lessening my interest in a potential relationship more. By the end of the night, I had a physical attraction to this girl, but there was no other connection. I didn’t feel like she had any other close connection with me either. After dropping her back home, we spoke a few more times about dating but after a while it ceased. We are still friends which is great, but probably having a better matchmaker would have been more ideal for a relationship. This would have been more ideal because they would have been more inclined to match me with someone that was not only physically attractive to me, but also shared my interests, hobbies, and goals in life. This would have made conversations more interesting, giving me a better chance of finding someone to be in a long term relationship with. Next time, maybe I will use a matchmaker that is qualified to set up the next blind date for me, that will hopefully be more successful.

Alright. I have to get this off my chest before I go INSANE…

So many guys that pickup girls online make this mistake. I mean, it seems like it would work, but it really… REALLY doesn’t.

This error that I’m referring… BRINGING UP SEX TOO EARLY!

Every guys seems to want to bring up the topic of sex way too early. DON’T. For many HIGH QUALITY women, it’s a sure sign that you’re just a horny punk with no respect.

That doesn’t mean that you can’t bring up sex… but that’s further down the road when you’ve built up enough TRUST and COMFORT… and often, I wouldn’t bring up sex until you actually MEET the girl in real life first!

Women have this negative image of how men are online… they think there are a ton of creepy guys that DON’T know how to REALLY please a woman… and by bringing up sex way too early, you are falling right into this “creepy category”…!

However, that doesn’t mean you can’t FLIRT online. You just need to know HOW to do it properly and make sure you don’t come off the wrong way.

You can convey what I call “Online IOI’s” or “Online Indicators of Interest.” An Online IOI can mean “lol’ing” at their jokes, increasing the amount of what you write, decreasing the duration of intervals between of messages, etc.

Mix these in with some “Online IOD’s” and now you have a recipe for creating a tremendous amount of attraction through your instant messages or e-mails…

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Do you know how to keep a woman happy? Here is some advice on relationships for you men.

The first item I have for you is to always be yourself. Many men don’t feel that they are good enough to catch a beautiful, sexy woman, so they put on a show. But a confident man is the sexiest beast around. Have you ever noticed that some of the ugliest guys have some of the prettiest women? That is because they display a level of confidence that is more attractive to women than physical looks.

Next, you should do the little things. This means offering to take her car in for an oil change or giving her a bag of Jelly Bellies (her favorite flavors) from time to time. Sometimes men think in terms of “grand gestures,” when it is the little things that add up to long relationships.

This ties into the next piece of advice on relationships: appreciate her. You shouldn’t take her for granted. Let her know that you value her.

Next up is not obviously looking at other women when you are with her. Women think that you are comparing her to the woman you’re looking at. They don’t understand the whole concept of “the day I stop looking is the day I die.” This comes from the biological drive for monogamy in women. Women are looking for a lifetime partner, a man with whom they can raise children. They can’t help it. That’s how nature designed them. So minimize the ogling, especially when she’s around.

You should try to make her laugh. While men list good looks at the top of the things they need in a woman, women list a man’s sense of humor. If you want the relationship to last, keep her laughing.

The next bit of advice on relationships comes in seeking common interests. It’s great if you got together because of a hobby or an interest, but it still helps when you take an interest in a long standing passion of hers. If this means developing an appreciation for foreign films, so be it. This shows that you care about her and she’ll know you are one in a million.

Once you get the girl, it may seem like you don’t have to try anymore, at least as far as grooming goes. While women are less sensitive to looks than men are, they still like a man who makes an attempt. So, shave on weekends. Keep in touch with the latest fashion trends for men. In short, don’t get sloppy just because you’ve landed her. You can unland her just as easily.

She’s going to need to know that she can integrate you into her circle of family and friends. A man must be part of her larger life, especially after the first few weeks of passion are over. Make an effort to get along with her girlfriends and impress her parents. A woman relies on her social network to validate her relationship choices. Make an effort.

You should always be considerate of her feelings. Women are less stable than guys. Part of this is hormonal. When you are sensitive to her mood, you won’t get on her bad side.

The final piece of advice on relationships is to be open to trying new things. At the beginning of a relationship, everything is new from the types of dates you arrange to the way you kiss. After a while, though, these things become routine. If you find that your relationship has fallen into a rut, shake things up. Try something new. It will go a long way to keeping your relationship healthy.

Most women want to get the guy of their dreams but not all women are successful in getting the interest of the man of their dreams. You may be wondering why there are women who attract men like magnet while you are having a hard time attracting your dream guy.

There are average looking women who have the charisma to mesmerize men because they know what to do. They have learned the art of attraction and have developed the qualities most men want from women. Attracting your dream guy is not that hard if you know what to do. Here are some tips:

A positive aura. A person full of negativity is not a pleasurable person to be with. It is true that a person may encounter problems and misfortunes in this life but how to react and handle those situations makes you stand out from the rest. Most women are regarded as worriers but if you are a person who knows how to handle difficult things and situations with positive aura, you are a man magnet. Your positive attitude can do wonders in attracting your dream guy.

Be confident with yourself. Nobody is perfect. Everybody has their flaws and it is not attractive to see women who are so insecure with their flaws. Accept the things that you cannot change, improve the things that you can improve and feel confident with yourself. Being confident is one of the best qualities that you can use in attracting your dream guy. It is nice to be around women who are secure and confident with themselves.

Use cooking as a weapon in attracting your dream guy. Knowing how to feed and nurture a man is one quality that women can use to attract men. It is an old saying that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach and in most cases it is true. Most men cannot forget a woman who cooks good meals for him. An outstanding cooking skill is a very attractive quality that can make you stand out from other women.

Take care of your appearance. Physical appearance is a big factor in attracting your dream guy. Men are visual and they love to see good looking women. Looking good doesn’t mean you have to be exceptionally beautiful. All women have their own beauty and you just have to discover how to make your beauty shine. You can learn to look at your best to be desired. Find out your best physical asset and flaunt it. If you have great shoulders then sleeveless clothes looks good on you. In attracting your dream guy, you should know the clothes that suit your style and personality. Learn to wear simple make up. Always appear clean and well groomed. Simplicity is beauty so avoid overdoing everything.

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Dumping a girlfriend and wanting her back is probably the worse thing that can happen to you. This is not going to be a cup of tea. Even if she wants you too, you will have to pay for all the pains, the disgrace and the embarrassments you gave her. And you are going to pay that with interest. But nothing is impossible and if you are ready, but lack ideas of how to get her back, then read on.

Instead of calling her hundred times a day or sending her expensive gifts, be responsible for your acts. Be reasonable, practical and realistic. Plan a speech to explain why you acted like you did. Take your time, think well and be honest with yourself and with her when it’s time to clarify yourself. Go somewhere nice to talk about this, sit down and have some coffee. Be calm and convincing.

If your things like an admission of guilt, an excuse and a promise that never such thing will occur in the future again are required, don’t hesitate. Your aim is to get her back, so do everything possible to make it happen if you really want her back.

What you did may just be the outcome of your fear of getting engaged in a more serious relationship. I know guys usually are alarmed when they see their relationship taking a serious turn. Perhaps this is what you need to make clear with your ex.

I understand you are desperate to get her back and as you are at fault, you are even ready to be her yes man. But you really don’t have to bear all her annoyance, anger and irritation. You admitted your culpability, now be firm. And most important, be sincere with yourself. You must want her back because you have feelings for her and not just because you are feeling bad about how you reacted and treated her.

Where are you going to meet Vietnamese women? You can go to Vietnamese supermarkets, clubs, and social services to meet them. The best place to meet a single Vietnamese woman will be from online dating service. There are thousands of beautiful single Vietnamese girls online you can meet. They are free and available for a relationship. You can search for local girls in your area. You can also search for international Vietnamese women living in Italy, Australia, Canada, USA and others. You can search anywhere you want to meet a Vietnamese lady. Seeking love and romance online at Vietnamese dating sites is simple and easy. You can find your date online. Take action now to find your soul mate. Your other half is online.

A western man is lucky to get married to a Vietnamese woman. In other words, he is lucky to have a beautiful Vietnamese wife, who respects him, supports him and treats him with respect and sensitivity. She takes good care of the house and keeps it clean. She cooks daily meals. She runs all errands at home. Who don’t you want to marry a Vietnamese woman? You can view TV shows while your wife cooks dinner. She can take good care of your children. Why does she do all these things for you? Vietnamese women have been trained by their parents to do this when they were still young. They are very good at this work in house. They are also perfect housekeepers. A Vietnamese lady works hard to support you and your family.

The good manners and respect for others are very important to Vietnamese ladies. A Vietnamese girl places great value to the relationship and marriage. According to Vietnamese culture, marriage is between a man and a woman is a long-term commitment. A marriage is a very important institution of Vietnamese women, so they take it very seriously. A marriage is a lifetime commitment, so they set great value in it. When women in Vietnam came to the United States or other Western countries, they still use good traditional practices in their family. Although a Vietnamese woman is married to an American man, she uses both traditional and new way to teach her children.

The primary reason that Vietnamese women are too popular to western men is because they are lovely. Vietnamese women are very attractive physically. They are feminine and petite with beautiful eyes. A single Vietnamese woman is polite and gentle. She respects other people and knows how to treat other people. In Vietnam, most of the women were trained carefully from their parents when they were young. Parents usually teach their daughters how to cook, to clean, and to study. They also teach their daughters how to treat and respect other people. When Vietnamese women came to another country, they always remember those fine qualities that they have learned from their parents. This is one of the best traits that Vietnamese girls always bring with them and keep it in their heart.

“My boyfriend seems distant and I’m afraid he’s about to leave me.” That’s an all too familiar statement to many women. Love is a tender balancing act. In the early stages of a romantic relationship we all do everything in our power to impress the man we’re crazy about. Unwittingly we sometimes do things that turn him off. It’s happened to most of us at some point and unfortunately losing a promising relationship can be the result of one wrong move. Love isn’t just about all the things you need to do right, it’s also about avoiding things that can instantly kill his attraction.

If your boyfriend seems distant it’s likely because he’s considering ending the relationship. As women, we often try and defeat the nagging suspicions that our relationship is failing by convincing ourselves that the reason our boyfriend is acting distant is because he’s so overwhelmed with love for us. That’s never the case. What is happening is that he’s emotionally disengaging from the relationship and you.

You may think that the best thing to do when this is occurring in your relationship is to get your man to talk about what’s bothering him. Typically this plays out with the women hounding the man non-stop to talk. You ask him repeatedly what’s wrong, he says “nothing” and you keep at him until he finally boils over and a fight ensues. This is not what you want to have happen.

The best thing you can do is give him some space. He won’t be expecting it and he’ll appreciate that you’re giving him the room he needs. Don’t stop talking with him or seeing him altogether though. Push the relationship into a friendship state as opposed to a romantic one. Meet him for coffee and keep the conversations light and generic. The key is to remain a presence in his life. You want to show him that you’re mature enough to handle a change in the dynamic of the relationship and that you’re supportive of what he needs. Once you’ve settled into your new roles as friends, he’ll begin to open up again and eventually you can give the romance another try.

Ready to discover 3 pick up techniques for men which will leave woman practically begging for your phone number?

Then pay close attention to every word in this article and you will soon have the skills to score with any woman.

Imagine approaching the hottest woman in the club and knowing for sure you will be able to pick her up.

Once you begin using these three pick up techniques for men, it will all be possible.

Let me explain them…

1. The Drive By – Let’s say you see three woman sitting in a booth and one of them is amazingly attractive. She’s your woman of choice. Instead of walking up to her and introducing yourself. Jump into an empty seat next to them and blurt out, “Man traffic was crazy out there. You didn’t order a drink without me?” If they giggle or laugh, then you have just broken the ice and you’re on your way.
2. Deflection Tactic – This may be incredibly sneaky but works like magic. Instead of hitting on the woman you want. Go after her friends and start a conversation with them. If she is the hottest one then you will for sure get her number. Continue talking to her friends, while trying to ignore her. Sooner or later her curiosity will peak and she’ll wonder why you’re not trying to hit on her and it will be easy to score her phone number.
3. Conversation Piece – Find a way into a conversation by identifying something to talk about. For example you notice the purse she is wearing. Walk up to her and say, “I just noticed your purse from across the room and I know my gay brother would love it, where did you get it?” This will catch her off guard and she probably ask you about your brother, which will then spark a conversation.

Theses three pick up techniques work.

In addition…try and be confident as you approach her and have your back straight and you’re shoulders square. Exude confidence and masculinity and she’ll be more willing to respond.

Remember this, women know you want to hit on them and pick them up and they understand and will be attracted to you when you remain mysterious.

Some men feel they should not reveal their main attentions for hitting on a girl. But, women want to see your masculine and intelligent enough to make them laugh and carry on a conversation. Just make sure the entire conversation is about her. Never reveal too much information about yourself.